Friday, July 13, 2012
Baptisms and All Star Game
This past week has been a whirlwind. First Chase got Baptized last Saturday.
Then the following Sunday we drove to Kansas City to go to the All Star Game. We went to the Future's Game on Sunday, the Home Run Derby on Monday night and finally the All Star Game on Tuesday night.
The boys had a great time and so did I. I think we have memories that will last forever.
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Courage
Roller coasters, water slides and horse back riding. What do all these things have in common? They are things that Seth has done in the last week without any fear. This is the boy who had so much anxiety that anything new caused great fear to the point he was almost paralyzed.
He has worked hard over the years. He has attended many counseling sessions, various types of therapy and the results are showing.
I am so happy for him.
He has worked hard over the years. He has attended many counseling sessions, various types of therapy and the results are showing.
I am so happy for him.
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Chase Said The Prayer
This week is Adventure Week at church and Wednesday are always Salvation night. Last night Chase said the Salvation prayer for the first time. I won't go into great deal because Shelley has documented it on her blog but I just wanted to make sure I made mention of it.
Happy Birthday Chase
It was 7 years ago today we got to meet Chase for the first time. I still remember the moment I saw him the first time. At that time I had no idea how cool this little baby would end up being. He has made me laugh some of the biggest laughs I have ever had. He is extremely hugable and has a laugh that is infectious. He was the missing piece in our family puzzle.
Happy Birthday Chase!
Happy Birthday Chase!
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Happy Anniversary
Thirteen years ago Shelley and I got married. This anniversary slipped up on both of us and we have no big plans. I didn't get her a card nor did I write her a sweet note. I started the day bombarding her with emails giving her instructions of what I needed her to do today. We are in the middle of Adventure Week at church and we aren't getting home until 10 each night so things are crazy. But, I never want her to feel I am taking her for granted because I love her with all my heart.
Happy Anniversary honey, I love you and I will make it up to you.
Happy Anniversary honey, I love you and I will make it up to you.
Monday, June 11, 2012
How Many Times
Last week we were watching a show on statistics and they were discussing the average amount of time the average American spends having sex.
The boys were watching with us and Seth then turned to Shelley and I and asked, "how much time do you spend?"
Shelley and I laughed (hysterically) so hard we couldn't breath. We never did answer his question.
The boys were watching with us and Seth then turned to Shelley and I and asked, "how much time do you spend?"
Shelley and I laughed (hysterically) so hard we couldn't breath. We never did answer his question.
Sounds of the Morning
Every morning as I am getting ready for work, music is blaring out of Seth and Chase's rooms. It warms my heart to hear because they both fall asleep listening to our local Christian pop station, KLTY. They both know the words to almost every song they play and they often quote their commercials.
It is good to know that as they sleep they are having a positive message poured into them.
It is good to know that as they sleep they are having a positive message poured into them.
Friday, June 01, 2012
That Dowdle Kid
The past few baseball seasons have been rough on Seth. He just hasn't been able to become a part of a good team. And when I say good, I'm not referring to wins and losses. I am talking more about a team and that includes the coaches.
The past 2 seasons have been better because he did have a coach that cared. But, we weren't blessed with many kids with any athletic ability. Most of his team mates will find success in music, school or other areas but it won't be baseball.
This past season had a lot of ups and downs and some drama as well. The boys did get a win, got a chance to play on the little league field at Rangers' Ballpark and went to a Rough Riders game as a team. But, we had some tough losses as well. The last 2 games were tough losses because the boys had started playing well and had been competitive in their games but the last 2 they got beat worse than they probably should have. The boys seemed to have quit.
Seth took this hard but during the games he was one of the few that kept trying and was playing the game tge way it should have been played. I couldn't have been more proud of him.
While all of this is going on Chase's team is going undefeated and taking 1st place in their division.
All of this has left us contemplating what we would do with Seth and his team for next season. We have been praying about direction and wisdom.
(I know, this is a long story but it is going somewhere)
Last night was the end of the season awards where Chase was getting his 1st place trophy. I knew this was going to be hard on Seth and we talked about him cheering loudly for Chase because there will be a day when Chase will be cheering for Seth's success. And he did this including taking video of the trophy presentation.
Later that evening we get a call from the mother of one of Seth's teammates and one of Seth's best friends.
She recounted a story where the coach from on of those teams that beat us badly in our last 2 games came up to congratulate her son on his season. He was mistaken by what team he was on but when they cleared it up, he remembered our team. The mother then reached out to the coach and said they were considering switching teams and asked if he had any openings. He indicated he might and even asked her son if he wanted to play in an upcoming tournament with his team.
He then went on to say that there was another kid he would be interested in having on his team. He said I would like to have that "Dowdle kid, I think he was #18."
I don't know who this meant more to, Shelley and myself or Seth.
The past 2 seasons have been better because he did have a coach that cared. But, we weren't blessed with many kids with any athletic ability. Most of his team mates will find success in music, school or other areas but it won't be baseball.
This past season had a lot of ups and downs and some drama as well. The boys did get a win, got a chance to play on the little league field at Rangers' Ballpark and went to a Rough Riders game as a team. But, we had some tough losses as well. The last 2 games were tough losses because the boys had started playing well and had been competitive in their games but the last 2 they got beat worse than they probably should have. The boys seemed to have quit.
Seth took this hard but during the games he was one of the few that kept trying and was playing the game tge way it should have been played. I couldn't have been more proud of him.
While all of this is going on Chase's team is going undefeated and taking 1st place in their division.
All of this has left us contemplating what we would do with Seth and his team for next season. We have been praying about direction and wisdom.
(I know, this is a long story but it is going somewhere)
Last night was the end of the season awards where Chase was getting his 1st place trophy. I knew this was going to be hard on Seth and we talked about him cheering loudly for Chase because there will be a day when Chase will be cheering for Seth's success. And he did this including taking video of the trophy presentation.
Later that evening we get a call from the mother of one of Seth's teammates and one of Seth's best friends.
She recounted a story where the coach from on of those teams that beat us badly in our last 2 games came up to congratulate her son on his season. He was mistaken by what team he was on but when they cleared it up, he remembered our team. The mother then reached out to the coach and said they were considering switching teams and asked if he had any openings. He indicated he might and even asked her son if he wanted to play in an upcoming tournament with his team.
He then went on to say that there was another kid he would be interested in having on his team. He said I would like to have that "Dowdle kid, I think he was #18."
I don't know who this meant more to, Shelley and myself or Seth.
Thursday, May 31, 2012
The Talk
I had the "talk" with Seth last night and we both survived it. I don't know how well I did and time will only tell.
I wish I could remember all of what was said but here are a couple of highlights.
I was trying to explain the biological differences. When I told him that girls didn't have a penis, he said "so do they pee out of their butt?"
Then finally as I wrapped things up, I asked if he had any questions. He paused, thought for a moment and then asked, "so, when did you say the college world series starts?" and that was the end of our conversation.
I wish I could remember all of what was said but here are a couple of highlights.
I was trying to explain the biological differences. When I told him that girls didn't have a penis, he said "so do they pee out of their butt?"
Then finally as I wrapped things up, I asked if he had any questions. He paused, thought for a moment and then asked, "so, when did you say the college world series starts?" and that was the end of our conversation.
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
The Talk
It is time to have the "talk" with Seth. We have danced around the subject and it has become more obvious that it is something Seth is curious about but yesterday he finally asked Shelley what SEX was. There is no avoiding it now but I have no idea what to say. I've researched it but nothing seems to fit the way I communicate with Seth. So, I am going to pray and just use the words God will give me.
(this is 2 post in 2 days, I'm on a roll)
(this is 2 post in 2 days, I'm on a roll)
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
Update
Shelley pointed out that it has been 4 months since I blogged. This surprised me because I didn't think anyone even read what I was writing, including Shelley. But, it also made me feel guilty because I have wanted to provide the boys a written history of their childhood and I'm doing a poor job of it.
We have been so busy I don't even know what to write at this point. So here are some quick hit points.
Seth just finished the 3rd grade and finished with all As for the year.
Chase just finished the 1st grade and I'm not sure what letter grade he ended the year with on his reading but he blew away the 1st grade requirement.
We just finished up the Spring baseball season and it was full of highs and lows. I helped on both teams and it kept us very busy. Seth's team continue to struggle to find their way. They did win a game this year which was one of the highlights. They also got to play a game on the little league field at the Ballpark in Arlington. It included the singing of the national anthem and each player being announced when they came to bat. But, the season included a lot of drama among the players and coaches. Losing causes a lot of stress. We are in prayer as to whether to return to the Roughriders next season or not.
On the other hand, Chase's team came in first place. Chase is blessed to be in a very good situation. He is excited because next season he gets to move to coach pitch.
Shelley and I just returned from a trip to Jefferson, Texas. It was sans children and we enjoyed our time together. We stayed in a nice bed and breakfast, took a ghost walking tour, took a tour of the river and explored the local area. But, the most important thing was the time we had together which did us both a lot of good.
Another big thing that has happened is that I changed roles at work. I am now back to running the IT department. It has added a lot of stress but I continue to be thankful to have a job and be able to provide for my family.
Can I write another post in less than 4 months, we will see. :-)
We have been so busy I don't even know what to write at this point. So here are some quick hit points.
Seth just finished the 3rd grade and finished with all As for the year.
Chase just finished the 1st grade and I'm not sure what letter grade he ended the year with on his reading but he blew away the 1st grade requirement.
We just finished up the Spring baseball season and it was full of highs and lows. I helped on both teams and it kept us very busy. Seth's team continue to struggle to find their way. They did win a game this year which was one of the highlights. They also got to play a game on the little league field at the Ballpark in Arlington. It included the singing of the national anthem and each player being announced when they came to bat. But, the season included a lot of drama among the players and coaches. Losing causes a lot of stress. We are in prayer as to whether to return to the Roughriders next season or not.
On the other hand, Chase's team came in first place. Chase is blessed to be in a very good situation. He is excited because next season he gets to move to coach pitch.
Shelley and I just returned from a trip to Jefferson, Texas. It was sans children and we enjoyed our time together. We stayed in a nice bed and breakfast, took a ghost walking tour, took a tour of the river and explored the local area. But, the most important thing was the time we had together which did us both a lot of good.
Another big thing that has happened is that I changed roles at work. I am now back to running the IT department. It has added a lot of stress but I continue to be thankful to have a job and be able to provide for my family.
Can I write another post in less than 4 months, we will see. :-)
Thursday, February 09, 2012
Smart Boys
I have 2 very smart boys.
Last week Chase came in first place in the first grade in a writing contest.
This week Seth took a test that is to prepare him for next year when he has to start taking the standardized tests and he got a 100 on it.
I am very proud of them...
Monday, February 06, 2012
Entrepreneurs
The boys are becoming entrepreneurs.
This weekend the first edition of the Cripple Creek News went out. Seth wrote the first edition of our street newspaper. I will leave it to Shelley to post a copy of it but it was very cute but also impressive. His delivery system was the old fashioned paperboy. Chase rolled each one up, put them in a canvas bag and hit the streets on his bike. They were all quickly distributed and I'm sure our neighbors are anxiously awaiting the next edition.
They have also gone into the recycling business. I bought them a trash can and an aluminum can crusher and they are now crushing cans with the plans of selling them for a little cash.
They are both very industrious and I'm anxious to see what they come up with next.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Happy Birthday Seth
I am a couple days late on this post but I still wanted to mark the occasion with an entry.
On Saturday Seth turned 9. He is really growing up to be a special boy.
We had his birthday party at Rangers Ballpark. I think everyone enjoyed it, especially me. We got a tour of the ballpark and got to see things like the press box, a suite and the underground hitting area. When we entered the hitting area my heart jumped a little because you could hear someone in there taking batting practice. Who is it? Josh, Michael Young, Mitch Moreland??? No, it was some high school kids whose Dad worked for the Rangers.
Despite that disappointment, it was a great tour that ended in the Rangers' dugout.
Seth had invited four friends to his party. Isaiah Brogan, Cameron Bitz, Mason Jordan and Holden Skinner. I got the duty of driving them around and having a car with five 3rd graders can be an experience. But, on the way home the boys started singing Chris Tomlin's "Our God" and then they went into Hillsong's "mighty to save." It really warmed my heart.
Having a 9 year old is making me feel old and I realize the time is going way to fast. It seems just yesterday when we were in the ICU unit feeding him with all these wires and sensors connected to him.
Seth, I love you.
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Growing Up
Our boys are growing up and there is nothing I can do about it. It wasn't long ago (just a few months) that when it rained at night, the boys were getting in bed with us. I typically moved to the couch because there wasn't enough room and Shelley would often move to one of their rooms. But, they received some level of comfort by sleeping in our room even though neither of us were in there.
Well, last night we had some horrible storms with big lightening and loud thunder. They both stayed in their rooms all night. I happy they slept well but I already miss getting awaken at night.
Monday, January 23, 2012
Chase Rides His Bike
Yesterday I took Chase out to try and learn to ride his bike. It was going to be a nice day and we haven't given it a try in quite sometime so I thought it would be a good time to try. This was something Chase did not want to do. He has had a considerable amount of fear regarding this and I have had to practically force him to do it. He really was afraid of getting hurt so our past efforts were always very brief.
I knew that if he would ever give it much effort he would be able to do it because he was really close.
So, when I brought up what I wanted to do, he started to cry. He really did not want to go. I finally convinced him but he continued to negotiate. We were only going to try two times but I didn't give in to his demands.
Out we go with helmet, knee pads, elbow pads and gloves all protecting his vulnerable parts. I pushed him around a few times with him demanding that I don't let him go. Then Shelley took over and pushed him around just to give him a feel. Shelley went in so it just left the two of us out there. I pushed him and let go and he took off and went at least 20 feet on his in own. I was far more excited than he was because I'm sure he realized that I wasn't going to stop now that he had done so well. I sent him in to get Shelley and with her watching he rode his bike right to her. Again, Shelley and I were far more excited. He just wanted to get off and go inside to get the cookies Shelley promised to bake if he would just try.
But, he can now ride his bike.
Tuesday, January 03, 2012
A new year
We have started a new year and I suspect it will be a doozy. I am going to do my best to write more but I will always have Shelley's blog.
We will see what this year brings but I am committed to making it a great year.
Monday, November 28, 2011
The boys can now check and send emails. There are some pretty cute exchanges.
On Mon, Nov 28, 2011 at 5:01 PM, Chase Dowdle <chasedowdle@gmail.com> wrote:
I love you.And can you read to me.
| 5:06 PM (1 hour ago) | | ||
| ||||
Yes, I will read to you. I love you s much
Seth
I love you.And can you read to me.
Chase's Two Front Teeth
This past week Chase lost both of his front teeth. I can't imagine a worse time to lose your front teeth than Christmas because everyone, including myself, is beating him down with singing "all I want for Christmas is my two front teeth." He is tolerating it well for now but we will see what his attitude is like in a couple of weeks.
Sunday, November 06, 2011
A Poem
I haven't blogged in awhile but I needed to make sure this got documented.
Seth has started emailing a lot and he is using it as a way to express his feelings. Below is a poem he wrote and emailed me.
Seth has started emailing a lot and he is using it as a way to express his feelings. Below is a poem he wrote and emailed me.
I love you so much,I love your heart.I will never forget you, never forget.
I love watching TV with you.
I love the Texas Rangers just like you.
I hope you like his poem,because I like you.
Tuesday, August 02, 2011
Father/Son Retreat
This past weekend Chase and I got away for a little Father/Son time. We went down to Glenn Rose, Texas and stayed at some cabins that Shelley, Seth and I had once stayed in. We had a great time and visited Big Rocks Park, Dinosaur Valley Park and Fossil Rim. We also did archery and went swimming.
I had told Chase at the beginning that this weekend was all about him and we would do whatever he wanted.
At one point I was trying to talk him into going and looking at something I wanted to see and he said he didn't want to.
Chase - "I don't want to, remember this is all about me."
Yes, it was all about him....
Wednesday, July 06, 2011
Vacation 2011
We just wrapped up our summer vacation and as always it was an adventure.
This was our most adventurous road trip to date. According to Google maps we travelled a minimum of 1,543 miles or the equivalent of 28 hours of driving. This doesn't include the side trips we took which I would say added another 3 hours to our journey. Below is a map of our journey.
This was our most adventurous road trip to date. According to Google maps we travelled a minimum of 1,543 miles or the equivalent of 28 hours of driving. This doesn't include the side trips we took which I would say added another 3 hours to our journey. Below is a map of our journey.
Shelley's blog contains a day by day account of our journey so I will just refer to that. This was an adventure and had a western theme as we visited Dodge City Kansas, road horses in Colorado, visited an actual ghost town and then ended our journey in Amarillo.
I imagine our boys wish we were like other parents and just took them to Disney but someday I hope they appreciate the adventures we shared.
A Good Sports Year
This past year has been a pretty good sports year.
It started right at a year ago when TCU made it to the college world series. They lost but it was still a big accomplish.
Then it was followed by the Rangers making it to the World Series. Again they lost but it was a big accomplish.
Then TCU won the Rose Bowl.
Finally, last night the Dallas Mavericks won the NBA finals by beating the hated Miami Heat.
The last time there was a championship in Dallas was 12 years ago when the Stars won the Stanley Cup. The Stars won the Cup right after Shelley and I got married and in fact they won game 3 on the day we got married. So, it was only appropriate that the Mavs won on our 12 year anniversary.
It started right at a year ago when TCU made it to the college world series. They lost but it was still a big accomplish.
Then it was followed by the Rangers making it to the World Series. Again they lost but it was a big accomplish.
Then TCU won the Rose Bowl.
Finally, last night the Dallas Mavericks won the NBA finals by beating the hated Miami Heat.
The last time there was a championship in Dallas was 12 years ago when the Stars won the Stanley Cup. The Stars won the Cup right after Shelley and I got married and in fact they won game 3 on the day we got married. So, it was only appropriate that the Mavs won on our 12 year anniversary.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Monday, May 16, 2011
Piano Recital
This is just a note to Seth.
Friday night was another piano recital and I just have to tell you how impressed I am by you. You have worked very hard and it shows.
You have been playing the piano for a number of years and you have gotten very good. I know it has taken a lot of work on your part and I am very proud of you.
I love you
Friday night was another piano recital and I just have to tell you how impressed I am by you. You have worked very hard and it shows.
You have been playing the piano for a number of years and you have gotten very good. I know it has taken a lot of work on your part and I am very proud of you.
I love you
Monday, May 02, 2011
What Makes A Good Baseball Player
The best baseball players have been described as 5 tool players. Five tool players hit for average, hit for power, have speed, have a strong arm and play good defense. Well, I have been involved in the boys' youth teams since they have been playing baseball and I know have a new definition.
A five tool player doesn't complain, does what the coaches ask, plays with joy and excitement, are good sports and they try their hardest. I'm proud to say that Seth and Chase are both 5 tool players.
A five tool player doesn't complain, does what the coaches ask, plays with joy and excitement, are good sports and they try their hardest. I'm proud to say that Seth and Chase are both 5 tool players.
Friday, April 01, 2011
Reading
I just need to note this.
Last night I listened to Chase read Green Eggs and Ham for 20 minutes. It is amazing how well he can read. He reads the story with the proper emotion and I just love listening to him.
I know these moments go fast and I will miss them.
Last night I listened to Chase read Green Eggs and Ham for 20 minutes. It is amazing how well he can read. He reads the story with the proper emotion and I just love listening to him.
I know these moments go fast and I will miss them.
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
14 years ago
Fourteen years ago Shelley and I had our first date. We went and ate at Pappadeux's and saw the movie Absolute Power. Little did I know that Shelley didn't like seafood and didn't like to go to movies. I must have done something right because we are still together after 14 years. :-)
Sunday, January 30, 2011
A Thoughtful Gift From Seth
Today Seth took is own money, almost $40, and bought Chase a DS game that Chase wanted. It was a very thoughtful gift.
Monday, December 20, 2010
Riding a Bike
I have been working with Seth to learn to ride his bike without the training wheels. Yesterday he made great progress and was able to ride about 30 feet without any assistance from me.
Progress!
Quote from Seth
As we were walking along, Seth said:
"I don't think many of my friends know the true meaning of Christmas."
I am impressed with my little man and his concern for others.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
A Quote from Chase
This weekend the boys went to the grocery store with me. As we were going down the frozen foods section aisle, Chase saw some TV dinners for kids.
Chase - We had these at Mama's and it was GOOOOOOOOOOOOOD. (A strong emphasis on good).
Always looking for anything they would eat, I made a step toward the freezer to pick out a couple when Chase continued.
Chase - But the only thing I ate was the pudding.
Thursday, December 09, 2010
A Special Gift
Last night when I came home I was immediately greeted by an excited Seth carry a small gift bag. He was so excited Shelley had to tell me that he had bought me a gift. My expectation was that it would be either something from his room that he had just "gifted" me or something that was actually for him like a small lego set. But to my surprise it was a mug like the one pictured. He had purchased it from a store that has been set up at school to help the kids buy presents and he had picked it out especially for me. I was also shocked to find out he had spent $10 of his own money on it. This is a lot of money in a 7 year old's economy. It equals either 5 teeth or 2 months of allowance.Seth has a very special heart and the mug will always be special to me.
Monday, December 06, 2010
Is Santa Real?
Shelley and I made a decision early on that we wouldn't lie to our kids and that included topics such as Santa Claus. We explained that Santa was just a character like the Easter Bunny. This caused us to take some grief from other adults but the boys seemed fine. Christmas still seemed to contain all the joy and excitement.
But, as Seth has gotten older, he has struggled with being one of the few in his class that doesn't believe in Santa. He doesn't like being different.
Yesterday, he told me he wanted to put cookies out for Santa this year to determine if Santa was real or not. If the cookies get eaten, then Santa is real, was his reasoning.
I asked him, "You don't trust Mommy and Daddy?"
He replied, "I just want to prove it myself."
Well, there you go.
But, as Seth has gotten older, he has struggled with being one of the few in his class that doesn't believe in Santa. He doesn't like being different.
Yesterday, he told me he wanted to put cookies out for Santa this year to determine if Santa was real or not. If the cookies get eaten, then Santa is real, was his reasoning.
I asked him, "You don't trust Mommy and Daddy?"
He replied, "I just want to prove it myself."
Well, there you go.
Monday, November 29, 2010
3 Days, 3 Women, 3 Needs
We spent the Thanksgiving weekend in College Station, Texas and Houston, Texas. I will document that trip at some other time but we did have something happen that I wanted to document. I don't know if we will ever know the significance but I believe God was working in some manner.
On our drive to College Station, Chase had another run in with car sickness. This time he gave us enough warning that Shelley was able to give him a bag to get sick in. As the smell became a little intense, we sought out a random gas station to pull in and throw away the bag. As Shelley got out of the car, a woman with a small child asked if she could have some money for gas. I pulled out a wad of cash and gave it to Shelley.
On day two in Houston, we were staying in downtown and had gone walking to find something to eat. On our way back to the hotel, it had gotten dark and I was anxious to get back as quickly as possible. I had told the boys to walk with a "purpose". I noticed a woman with a stroller behind us and it seemed the faster we walked, the faster she walked. She finally caught us and asked for some money so she could get her kids some food. I reached in my pocket and gave her another wad of cash.
On day three, we were on our way home from church and were experiencing car trouble. I was pretty stressed and was trying to get my family back to the hotel before our car quit running. We were stopped at a stop light and were approached by another lady in a wheel chair asking for money. Again, I handed over a wad of cash.
I think God put these women in our path because they had a need and we could fill it. But, also, I had a need and that was a reminder of how blessed we are.
On our drive to College Station, Chase had another run in with car sickness. This time he gave us enough warning that Shelley was able to give him a bag to get sick in. As the smell became a little intense, we sought out a random gas station to pull in and throw away the bag. As Shelley got out of the car, a woman with a small child asked if she could have some money for gas. I pulled out a wad of cash and gave it to Shelley.
On day two in Houston, we were staying in downtown and had gone walking to find something to eat. On our way back to the hotel, it had gotten dark and I was anxious to get back as quickly as possible. I had told the boys to walk with a "purpose". I noticed a woman with a stroller behind us and it seemed the faster we walked, the faster she walked. She finally caught us and asked for some money so she could get her kids some food. I reached in my pocket and gave her another wad of cash.
On day three, we were on our way home from church and were experiencing car trouble. I was pretty stressed and was trying to get my family back to the hotel before our car quit running. We were stopped at a stop light and were approached by another lady in a wheel chair asking for money. Again, I handed over a wad of cash.
I think God put these women in our path because they had a need and we could fill it. But, also, I had a need and that was a reminder of how blessed we are.
Tuesday, November 02, 2010
World Series
Well last night, the Rangers lost their first trip to the World Series. It was a great season and a great run in the playoffs. While I am sad the Rangers lost 4 to 1 to the Giants, I am greatful for the experience.
It was thrilling to watch my "little" Rangers make it to the World Series but it was even more fun to watch what it did to our household. Our household caught Ranger fever and I loved it.
Shelley and the boys all took an interest in what was happening and even got their own Ranger shirts. They also even watched some of the games with me.
But the biggest thrill for me is the interest the boys, in particular Seth, took in the Rangers. They both started learning the players and Colby Lewis became Seth's favorite Ranger (along with Michael Young since he got a Michael Young shirt). We would go out in the backyard and play the Rangers. Last night Seth was Colby Lewis, Chase was C.J. Wilson and I was Josh Hamilton. Then once it got dark, the boys would play in the living room. They were even including the Rangers in their prayers at night.
I will remember this World Series forever not because of the outcome but because of what we shared as a family. I hope the boys will have fond memories and maybe this will be the beginning of a new generation of Ranger fans.
It was thrilling to watch my "little" Rangers make it to the World Series but it was even more fun to watch what it did to our household. Our household caught Ranger fever and I loved it.
Shelley and the boys all took an interest in what was happening and even got their own Ranger shirts. They also even watched some of the games with me.
But the biggest thrill for me is the interest the boys, in particular Seth, took in the Rangers. They both started learning the players and Colby Lewis became Seth's favorite Ranger (along with Michael Young since he got a Michael Young shirt). We would go out in the backyard and play the Rangers. Last night Seth was Colby Lewis, Chase was C.J. Wilson and I was Josh Hamilton. Then once it got dark, the boys would play in the living room. They were even including the Rangers in their prayers at night.
I will remember this World Series forever not because of the outcome but because of what we shared as a family. I hope the boys will have fond memories and maybe this will be the beginning of a new generation of Ranger fans.
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Baseball
I have been a fan of baseball all of my life. I played it my entire childhood, either just pick up games in the park or organized baseball. My Grandma Dowdle loved baseball and it was one thing we connected on. She loved the Cincinnati Reds so I became a Reds fan. She talked to the players like they were her sons. She would call them Petey (Pete Rose), little Joe (Joe Morgan), and Johnny (Johnny Bench).
This has been a good baseball year for me. My TCU Horned Frogs went to the college World Series and now my Texas Rangers are going to the World Series. I have suffered a long time with my Rangers and I am enjoying every minute.
But, also the boys have been playing baseball and we have spent a lot of time playing catch and taking baseball practice in the backyard. I love this time we have together and I love watching them improve. I just hope they have fond memories of these times.
This has been a good baseball year for me. My TCU Horned Frogs went to the college World Series and now my Texas Rangers are going to the World Series. I have suffered a long time with my Rangers and I am enjoying every minute.
But, also the boys have been playing baseball and we have spent a lot of time playing catch and taking baseball practice in the backyard. I love this time we have together and I love watching them improve. I just hope they have fond memories of these times.
Monday, October 11, 2010
The Sports Weekend
This past weekend was setup to be a great sports weekend but turned out to be a bust. First, the Rangers had an opportunity to win the ALDS either Saturday or Sunday and lost both games. Then the Cowboys played at home on Sunday against Tennessee and also lost. My only win was TCU which beat Wyoming.
But, the two best games was Chase's braves versus the Blue Jays and Seth's Longhorns versus the Tigers. Watching their games are my favorite and they both are doing so well.
Chase has a lot of natural ability and Seth has so much heart. They both are out there doing their very best. I look forward to their games every week.
But, the two best games was Chase's braves versus the Blue Jays and Seth's Longhorns versus the Tigers. Watching their games are my favorite and they both are doing so well.
Chase has a lot of natural ability and Seth has so much heart. They both are out there doing their very best. I look forward to their games every week.
Sunday, October 03, 2010
Quote from Chase
Chase and I were talking about the girls in his class and I was kidding him about getting married.
He replied "I don't know who I'm going to marry because I haven't met that many girls yet."
He replied "I don't know who I'm going to marry because I haven't met that many girls yet."
Monday, September 06, 2010
Retiring
We went to Oklahoma this weekend, and I took the opportunity to explore some of Marilyn's property. She has 100 acres, and our dream is that we could build a vacation/retirement home there one day. Here are a few pictures of where we might build.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Sound of Silence
Silence is not a sound we have in our house. There is a constant buzz of light sabre fights, brothers fighting, TV, video games, and many other noises. But, the other sounds I actually love are the sounds of little boys laughing and talking. I'm not sure how we got two boys that talk so much but we did.
Yesterday we went to the Ranger game and we had a long walk from the car to the stadium and I'm not sure if Seth ever took a breath. His mouth was going non-stop. Then during the game, we were getting question after question, commentary after commentary. While quiet is nice, I would much rather hear the voices of my little boys.
Yesterday we went to the Ranger game and we had a long walk from the car to the stadium and I'm not sure if Seth ever took a breath. His mouth was going non-stop. Then during the game, we were getting question after question, commentary after commentary. While quiet is nice, I would much rather hear the voices of my little boys.
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
44
Today is my birthday and I'm not sure how I feel about being 44. I don't feel 44 but also I don't feel I have accomplished nearly what I hoped to by this time.
Monday, August 23, 2010
First Day of School
Today was the first day of school for Seth and Chase. Seth is going into 2nd Grade and Chase is Kindergarten. It is always a hectic day because we aren't in a routine yet for getting up and getting ready, everyone is walking their kid in so the parking lot is a madhouse, and the halls are full.
So, we took our customary pictures and video but I didn't get to savor it. It was partly because it was crazy there, and second because I was preoccupied with going to work. I know I will regret it.
I don't want these days to go by too fast. Shelley and I are doing everything we can to take these days in. We have a ton of pictures and videos so we will have plenty of memories. Plus between the blogs and facebook, we will have captured a lot of the memories.
I am not ready for my babies to grow up yet, though.
So, we took our customary pictures and video but I didn't get to savor it. It was partly because it was crazy there, and second because I was preoccupied with going to work. I know I will regret it.
I don't want these days to go by too fast. Shelley and I are doing everything we can to take these days in. We have a ton of pictures and videos so we will have plenty of memories. Plus between the blogs and facebook, we will have captured a lot of the memories.
I am not ready for my babies to grow up yet, though.
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Why Me?
God, why me? Why:
do I have a wonderful wife?
do I have 2 healthy boys who are not suffering from a disease?
was I born in the US and not some third world country?
do I have a job when others don't?
do I have a roof over my head when others don't?
do I not have to worry about my next meal?
do I have reliable transportation?
do I have a great family?
am I blessed with a wonderful mother in law?
These are just some of the things I wonder about Why Me?
do I have a wonderful wife?
do I have 2 healthy boys who are not suffering from a disease?
was I born in the US and not some third world country?
do I have a job when others don't?
do I have a roof over my head when others don't?
do I not have to worry about my next meal?
do I have reliable transportation?
do I have a great family?
am I blessed with a wonderful mother in law?
These are just some of the things I wonder about Why Me?
Friday, August 20, 2010
God is not Boring
Yesterday as we were walking into school for Meet The Teacher I guess Chase had school on his mind.
He said, "When I went to Rainbow School all we learned about was colors and God. Colors were boring but God wasn't."
He said, "When I went to Rainbow School all we learned about was colors and God. Colors were boring but God wasn't."
Monday, August 09, 2010
Living Alone
I spent my first night last night alone and it has made me really appreciate my family and all the craziness that brings.
I got up one time and walked bare foot from the living room to the bathroom and didn't step on a single lego and I was really sad about that.
4 days, 11 hours until I pick up Chase. 5 days, 3 hours until I pick Shelley and Seth up.
I got up one time and walked bare foot from the living room to the bathroom and didn't step on a single lego and I was really sad about that.
4 days, 11 hours until I pick up Chase. 5 days, 3 hours until I pick Shelley and Seth up.
Sunday, August 08, 2010
Money, Money, Money
I have been stressed out a lot about money lately. And I also have been experiencing some of that green monster, envy. It seems like all my peers at work are driving new cars. I then heard this song and it really leveled my head.
Home Alone
I am home alone for then next 6 days and I already think I am going to go crazy.
Chase has been in Oklahoma for the past few days and I really miss him. Our family isn't complete without him and this hasn't gone unnoticed by Seth. Once during dinner, Seth said "dinner isn't the same without Chase." Then last night when we walked in to church, Seth said "something is missing? It's not the same without Chase."
This morning I dropped Shelley, Seth and Tate off at Alasso Ranch for a week of church camp. When I walked in the house, I realized being alone was going to be hard. I don't want to ever take for granted the blessing that my family is.
Chase has been in Oklahoma for the past few days and I really miss him. Our family isn't complete without him and this hasn't gone unnoticed by Seth. Once during dinner, Seth said "dinner isn't the same without Chase." Then last night when we walked in to church, Seth said "something is missing? It's not the same without Chase."
This morning I dropped Shelley, Seth and Tate off at Alasso Ranch for a week of church camp. When I walked in the house, I realized being alone was going to be hard. I don't want to ever take for granted the blessing that my family is.
Wednesday, August 04, 2010
Homesick
Can you be homesick and have never left your home? Well, I am or at least preparing to be.
Yesterday Chase left for Oklahoma and will be up there for the next 10 days. Then this next Sunday I am driving Shelley and Seth to Allaso Ranch where Seth will attend camp and Shelley will volunteer for one week.
I am already missing Chase and I am not looking forward to dropping Shelley and Seth off this Sunday. I am going to be alone next week and I dreading it. I don't think we all have been separated for this long ever.
While I will be sleeping in my own bed, I know I am going to be homesick. I will be posting and updating on my "condition."
Yesterday Chase left for Oklahoma and will be up there for the next 10 days. Then this next Sunday I am driving Shelley and Seth to Allaso Ranch where Seth will attend camp and Shelley will volunteer for one week.
I am already missing Chase and I am not looking forward to dropping Shelley and Seth off this Sunday. I am going to be alone next week and I dreading it. I don't think we all have been separated for this long ever.
While I will be sleeping in my own bed, I know I am going to be homesick. I will be posting and updating on my "condition."
Monday, August 02, 2010
Economics 101
Chase came into a little windfall courtesy of grand mama. So, with his new found wealth he decided to go on a little spending spree.
Yesterday, he went and bought some Phineas and Ferb sunglasses. Today, I took him out to Office Depot to buy a #14 Tony Stewart Office Depot chevy NASCAR model car.
On our way into the store he told me he got more money yesterday.
Me- "where did you get more money from?"
Chase - "when I bought my sunglasses they gave me more money. Am I going to get more money today?"
I love his economic model.
Yesterday, he went and bought some Phineas and Ferb sunglasses. Today, I took him out to Office Depot to buy a #14 Tony Stewart Office Depot chevy NASCAR model car.
On our way into the store he told me he got more money yesterday.
Me- "where did you get more money from?"
Chase - "when I bought my sunglasses they gave me more money. Am I going to get more money today?"
I love his economic model.
Praises
This week at church the message was about glorifying God and being thankful for all he has done. This isn't the first time I have heard a message on the power of praise so here are some things I am praising God for today.
1. You sent your Son to die for me.
2. Shelley
3. Seth
4. Chase
5. Shelley's theme of family this year and how much of our family we have seen.
6. My job
7. Having a roof over our head
8. Our wonderful church
9. Good friends
10 Our health
11. I don't have to worry about where our next meal will come from.
12. I'm home this morning with my boys.
1. You sent your Son to die for me.
2. Shelley
3. Seth
4. Chase
5. Shelley's theme of family this year and how much of our family we have seen.
6. My job
7. Having a roof over our head
8. Our wonderful church
9. Good friends
10 Our health
11. I don't have to worry about where our next meal will come from.
12. I'm home this morning with my boys.
Sunday, August 01, 2010
Friends
I was sitting behind the boys when the picture above was taken. As soon as it was taken I thought about one of those coming of age movies where they start out showing a picture of a bunch of boys when they were kids and then you flash forward to them all graduating high school together. I wonder where all of these little boys will be in 10 years?
In the picture from left to right - Nolan Givens,Cole Ladrew, Isaiah Brogan, Cameron Bitz, Alex Ladrew and Seth
Friday, July 30, 2010
End of another week
It's Friday and we are approaching the end of another week. This week was marked with the boys attending Vacation Bible School at Compass Christian Church in Colleyville. They both had a good time but Chase had a few rough spots.
First we had the incident of the black eye which didn't turn into a black eye but it was still a nasty little cut. Then last night as a wrap up to the week the kids got to try and dunk the pastors in a dunk tank. Seth was successful in his attempt but our little perfectionist, Chase, was not. And this "failure" crushed his spirit and we had ten minutes of tears.
So, the challenge is how do we make the most of his desire to be the best but still allow him to fail?
The rest of the week included the first week of Cowboy training camp and the Rangers took 2 of 3 from Oakland extending their lead in the west to 8.5 games and their magic number is 53 (lowest in baseball).
First we had the incident of the black eye which didn't turn into a black eye but it was still a nasty little cut. Then last night as a wrap up to the week the kids got to try and dunk the pastors in a dunk tank. Seth was successful in his attempt but our little perfectionist, Chase, was not. And this "failure" crushed his spirit and we had ten minutes of tears.
So, the challenge is how do we make the most of his desire to be the best but still allow him to fail?
The rest of the week included the first week of Cowboy training camp and the Rangers took 2 of 3 from Oakland extending their lead in the west to 8.5 games and their magic number is 53 (lowest in baseball).
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Black Eye
Last night while the boys were at VBS I got a text from Chase's VBS teacher that said:
"Chase got a booboo but he's laughing & smiling. Want me to send ya a pic?"
I replied "No that is ok. Thanks!" figuring it wasn't that big of deal.
She replied - "OK. Got bumped in the face & his glasses cut his cheek. But he's tough! :-)"
Well, when we saw him I was taken a little bit back and I know Shelley was because he had a nice little gash in his cheek under his eye.
I am not sure what it will look like this morning but we prepared him that he might have a black eye. We then had to explain that a "black eye" was just a bruise around the eye and his eye wouldn't be black.
I'll post a picture when I get one.
"Chase got a booboo but he's laughing & smiling. Want me to send ya a pic?"
I replied "No that is ok. Thanks!" figuring it wasn't that big of deal.
She replied - "OK. Got bumped in the face & his glasses cut his cheek. But he's tough! :-)"
Well, when we saw him I was taken a little bit back and I know Shelley was because he had a nice little gash in his cheek under his eye.
I am not sure what it will look like this morning but we prepared him that he might have a black eye. We then had to explain that a "black eye" was just a bruise around the eye and his eye wouldn't be black.
I'll post a picture when I get one.
Exhausted
I woke up this morning feeling really tired. So tired that I decided to "sleep in" and not go running. But, even after "sleeping in", I was really tired this morning. Just dragging...
Well, I got in the car to go to work, looked at the clock at it said 5:00 am and not 6:00 am. I paused, tried to process that bit of information, looked at my watch and was really confused. Some how I had got up an hour earlier than I thought.
So, now I am sitting in the living room about to rest my eyes for 50 minutes before going to work. I am really losing it..
Well, I got in the car to go to work, looked at the clock at it said 5:00 am and not 6:00 am. I paused, tried to process that bit of information, looked at my watch and was really confused. Some how I had got up an hour earlier than I thought.
So, now I am sitting in the living room about to rest my eyes for 50 minutes before going to work. I am really losing it..
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
July 28 2010
What to blog about?
I've taken my blog private so I can utilize this blog more as a journal and document more personal information that either Shelley and I or the boys will find interesting some day.
So, what to blog about? I don't know...
The boys are going to vacation bible school at Compass Christian Church in Colleyville. This is their third VBS this summer. I never went to a VBS and they have gone to 3 just this summer. I wonder if they will have fond memories of these events?
The Rangers have an 8.5 game lead in the West. Will they make the playoffs?
Cowboys have started training camp and the talk of the camp is their first round draft choice, Dez Bryant.
My job is still a struggle and is not fulfilling. My prayers continue to be to find my true purpose and do something with meaning.
I've taken my blog private so I can utilize this blog more as a journal and document more personal information that either Shelley and I or the boys will find interesting some day.
So, what to blog about? I don't know...
The boys are going to vacation bible school at Compass Christian Church in Colleyville. This is their third VBS this summer. I never went to a VBS and they have gone to 3 just this summer. I wonder if they will have fond memories of these events?
The Rangers have an 8.5 game lead in the West. Will they make the playoffs?
Cowboys have started training camp and the talk of the camp is their first round draft choice, Dez Bryant.
My job is still a struggle and is not fulfilling. My prayers continue to be to find my true purpose and do something with meaning.
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Parenting
This is just a note to myself to remember how hard this parenting thing is. I don't want to look back and think, "oh, it wasn't that hard."
It seems Shelley and I are never on our A game together. When one is over reacting the other is the calm in the storm. We never seem to be rationale together. :-)
I wonder what Seth and Chase will remember from their childhoods? It might be their bi-polar parents.
It seems Shelley and I are never on our A game together. When one is over reacting the other is the calm in the storm. We never seem to be rationale together. :-)
I wonder what Seth and Chase will remember from their childhoods? It might be their bi-polar parents.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Sleeping with Chase
Last night was another night when Chase came into our room to sleep. Shelley got up and went to his room, leaving just the two of us. Sleeping with Chase is an adventure and I feel sorry for his little wife some day. He is all over the bed and for most of the night I have his foot in my ribs. But, then his little hand will reach out and we will hold hands and that makes it all worth while.
I just try and burn that memory in my mind because I know it won't last forever.
I just try and burn that memory in my mind because I know it won't last forever.
Family Secrets
We have had one family secret since the boys were born. It really isn't a secret but we have never talked to the boys about it because they weren't old enough. Well, that all ended yesterday.
The secret has been that I was married prior to Shelley. We have held off on telling the boys until we thought they would better understand. Lately, they have been asking more about divorce and marriage because they have some friends who have parents that have been divorced. Shelley and I felt it was time because we never want to deceive our boys.
So, last night we turned off the t.v. and gathered everyone in the living room. I was pretty nervous and wasn't really sure how I was going to start the conversation. I explained to them that I had been married previously and they both took it well.
Chase was more focused on his legos but Seth did ask some questions. He asked what her name was, where she lived and why we got divorced. I answered all his questions best I could and he seemed satisified and was anxious to start watching Stars Wars Episode I. A boy must keep his priorities.
The secret has been that I was married prior to Shelley. We have held off on telling the boys until we thought they would better understand. Lately, they have been asking more about divorce and marriage because they have some friends who have parents that have been divorced. Shelley and I felt it was time because we never want to deceive our boys.
So, last night we turned off the t.v. and gathered everyone in the living room. I was pretty nervous and wasn't really sure how I was going to start the conversation. I explained to them that I had been married previously and they both took it well.
Chase was more focused on his legos but Seth did ask some questions. He asked what her name was, where she lived and why we got divorced. I answered all his questions best I could and he seemed satisified and was anxious to start watching Stars Wars Episode I. A boy must keep his priorities.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Thinking About Going Private
I have had this blog for 5 years and my activity on it has been sporadic. I once was very active and monitored the number of hits I was getting. Now, I have no idea if anyone reads this.
So, I am thinking about turning it into a private blog. If you read this and would like to continue reading it, please email me at jefftdowdle@gmail.com and I will give you access.
So, I am thinking about turning it into a private blog. If you read this and would like to continue reading it, please email me at jefftdowdle@gmail.com and I will give you access.
Sunday, June 27, 2010
California Vacation
This year our family vacation was truly a FAMILY vacation. We flew to San Jose, California with Shelley's mom and one of her aunts. We arrived and visted with two of Shelley's cousins that live in California, her aunt and uncle who live there and another cousin from Oklahoma who also flew out.
The trip consisted of us flying into California on Saturday, spending the night at Shelley's cousin Shannon's house. Then on Sunday, the four of us plus Shelley's mom and aunt Kathy drove the pacific coast highway to Santa Paula, California. We spent the night there and then got up and on Monday visited the Reagan and Nixon presidential libraries.
We arrived in San Diego at a house we had rented that was about 5000 sq foot and beautiful. Monday evening the rest of Shelley's family arrived. Her 3 cousins, 2 spouses and 5 kids. In total there was 16 of us.
Tuesday we got up and took a bus tour of San Diego and then toured the USS Midway. We ended Tuesday with a tour of the Harbor.
Wednesday was the San Diego Zoo, a miniature railroad museum and a hands on science museum.
Thursday was Legoland.
Friday was packing, cleaning the house, a children's museum and the flight home.
We saw a lot of nice things, stayed in a beautiful home, had beautiful weather but the best part for me was spending time with Shelley's family and getting to know her California cousins better. I also loved watching my boys play with their cousins and getting to know their family as well.
The trip consisted of us flying into California on Saturday, spending the night at Shelley's cousin Shannon's house. Then on Sunday, the four of us plus Shelley's mom and aunt Kathy drove the pacific coast highway to Santa Paula, California. We spent the night there and then got up and on Monday visited the Reagan and Nixon presidential libraries.
We arrived in San Diego at a house we had rented that was about 5000 sq foot and beautiful. Monday evening the rest of Shelley's family arrived. Her 3 cousins, 2 spouses and 5 kids. In total there was 16 of us.
Tuesday we got up and took a bus tour of San Diego and then toured the USS Midway. We ended Tuesday with a tour of the Harbor.
Wednesday was the San Diego Zoo, a miniature railroad museum and a hands on science museum.
Thursday was Legoland.
Friday was packing, cleaning the house, a children's museum and the flight home.
We saw a lot of nice things, stayed in a beautiful home, had beautiful weather but the best part for me was spending time with Shelley's family and getting to know her California cousins better. I also loved watching my boys play with their cousins and getting to know their family as well.
Monday, June 14, 2010
Sunday, June 06, 2010
Good information to have
Chase was in our bed and I was patting his bottom.
He said, "you know I fart every time you do that."
That was good to know.
He said, "you know I fart every time you do that."
That was good to know.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Coaching Baseball
Out of default I have become the coach for Chase's baseball team. I have 11 five and six year olds and I have to tell you, it is tough. Getting them to listen and do what I say is not easy if not impossible.
I seem to spend all my time just trying to corral them it seems.
But, I hope somehow this will create a memory for Chase that he finds special.
I seem to spend all my time just trying to corral them it seems.
But, I hope somehow this will create a memory for Chase that he finds special.
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Seth's Baptism
Tonight was a big night in our household. Tonight at church Seth was baptized with about 25 other kids. It was a month ago on April 22nd prior to going to bed that Seth asked Jesus into his heart.
We were so excited about his decision but he was a little nervous about the baptism. Tonight prior you could tell he was nervous but by the time for the baptism he was excited. Seth was excited to have Pastor Dave O'donnell baptize him. Pastor Dave has been his kindergarten and 1st grade pastor and Seth really respects him.
We had a group of friends and family which included Marilyn, Chris, Valerie and April there to cheer him on. He enjoyed the attention.
For me it was very moving and prior there were several times I was about to cry with joy. I am so proud of him and this decision he made.
We were so excited about his decision but he was a little nervous about the baptism. Tonight prior you could tell he was nervous but by the time for the baptism he was excited. Seth was excited to have Pastor Dave O'donnell baptize him. Pastor Dave has been his kindergarten and 1st grade pastor and Seth really respects him.
We had a group of friends and family which included Marilyn, Chris, Valerie and April there to cheer him on. He enjoyed the attention.
For me it was very moving and prior there were several times I was about to cry with joy. I am so proud of him and this decision he made.
Monday, May 10, 2010
Family
The past few days have been dedicated to family.
Friday I got to go on a field trip with Seth's class to the Fort Worth Zoo. We were able to spend the day together and we really enjoyed our time together. I am always impressed by what an awesome little boy he is. I was a chaperone over him and another little boy. While the other little boy wasn't much trouble, he did have a tendancy to go in his own direction. Seth was great because I would send him after him and he was a great help with my chaperone duties.
Then this past weekend we had a family reunion for my Mom's side of the family. This was an event that would never have taken place with out the hard work and deligence of Shelley. This was her party and she did a great job.
The reunion was about 3 hours from us so I got to enjoy a road trip with my family. I have discovered that I love taking road trips with my family.
Saturday was spent at the reunion and I saw people who I had not seen in about 8 years. Again, when I see my boys in an environment with other kids, I realize that they are very special.
I could go on about all the details of the reunion but just say it was a lot of fun and I hope we can do another one.
Friday I got to go on a field trip with Seth's class to the Fort Worth Zoo. We were able to spend the day together and we really enjoyed our time together. I am always impressed by what an awesome little boy he is. I was a chaperone over him and another little boy. While the other little boy wasn't much trouble, he did have a tendancy to go in his own direction. Seth was great because I would send him after him and he was a great help with my chaperone duties.
Then this past weekend we had a family reunion for my Mom's side of the family. This was an event that would never have taken place with out the hard work and deligence of Shelley. This was her party and she did a great job.
The reunion was about 3 hours from us so I got to enjoy a road trip with my family. I have discovered that I love taking road trips with my family.
Saturday was spent at the reunion and I saw people who I had not seen in about 8 years. Again, when I see my boys in an environment with other kids, I realize that they are very special.
I could go on about all the details of the reunion but just say it was a lot of fun and I hope we can do another one.
Friday, April 23, 2010
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Sight Words
There was a note from Seth's teacher that he is moving on to 2nd grade sight words. Also they expect them to be reading at a level of I by the end of the first grade. Seth is already at a level J.
Way to go Seth !
Way to go Seth !
Quotes from Chase
At Baseball practice - "Daddy, why in baseball is running called hustle?"
On the way home and listening to a praise song on the radio - "Daddy, they are singing about God and praising him. That's a good thing."
On the way home and listening to a praise song on the radio - "Daddy, they are singing about God and praising him. That's a good thing."
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Happy Birthday Seth
Seven years ago today I became a father. Prior to that day I would have never guessed I would love being a father like I do. But, we were truly blessed by the addition to our family or actually the start of the family.
Seth, I love you and truly love being your father. I can't believe you are 7. It has been a great 7 years.
Happy Birthday!
Seth, I love you and truly love being your father. I can't believe you are 7. It has been a great 7 years.
Happy Birthday!
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Brave Diver
The boys are currently taking swimming lessons at an indoor pool. One benefit of taking swim lessons in the winter is it seems most people aren't thinking about swim lessons so we only have one additional boy in their class. So, we are getting private lessons at a group rate.
But that isn't really relevant to this story.
At the end of each lessons the boys take turns jumping into the pool. Last night I watched the boy in front of Chase jump into the pool and since he is a pretty good swimmer he chose to swim away from the instructor. So, when the instructor swam off to get his student I looked down for a moment. While I was looking down, I heard a splash and when I looked up, Chase was no longer standing on the edge and the water was rippling. Also, the instructor was still trying to catch up with his other student.
When I yelled out, "Chase!", the instructor turned to see the dilema and he and I got to the scene of the incident about the same time. I reached in, pulled Chase up and he helped push him on the ledge of the pool. Chase had a big grin on his face and I'm sure I was pale as a ghost.
We still aren't sure why he chose to jump in but one thing is for sure, he's not afraid of the water. :-)
But that isn't really relevant to this story.
At the end of each lessons the boys take turns jumping into the pool. Last night I watched the boy in front of Chase jump into the pool and since he is a pretty good swimmer he chose to swim away from the instructor. So, when the instructor swam off to get his student I looked down for a moment. While I was looking down, I heard a splash and when I looked up, Chase was no longer standing on the edge and the water was rippling. Also, the instructor was still trying to catch up with his other student.
When I yelled out, "Chase!", the instructor turned to see the dilema and he and I got to the scene of the incident about the same time. I reached in, pulled Chase up and he helped push him on the ledge of the pool. Chase had a big grin on his face and I'm sure I was pale as a ghost.
We still aren't sure why he chose to jump in but one thing is for sure, he's not afraid of the water. :-)
Monday, January 11, 2010
Cowboys' Playoff Victory
The Cowboys' finally won a play off game this weekend. The last time they won a playoff game I was just 30 years old, going through a divorce, had not even met Shelley and the idea of having 2 boys was completely inconceivable.
For a die hard Cowboy fan it has been a long journey. I'm trying to savor it because who knows when the next victory will come.
For a die hard Cowboy fan it has been a long journey. I'm trying to savor it because who knows when the next victory will come.
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Christmas 2009
Christmas 2009 will always be remembered for snow. Yes, SNOW! The midwest was hit hit by a winter storm on Christmas Eve and this included Oklahoma and Texas. We had arrived on the 23rd in Oklahoma so we were safely in Oklahoma when the snow rolled in but it was evident that our planned return to Dallas on Christmas Eve night might be in jeopardy. And, in fact it was. We decided to spend another night in Oklahoma which proved to be a wise decision.
The boys Christmas will be remembered as the Christmas they got their Nintendo DSs. They also got a new microphone, piano bench, WII Lego Star Wars, scooters, Toy Story Woody and Toy Story Buz Lightyear and new bedding for their rooms.
It was a special Christmas because it was a white Christmas and we got to spend it with our family.
The boys Christmas will be remembered as the Christmas they got their Nintendo DSs. They also got a new microphone, piano bench, WII Lego Star Wars, scooters, Toy Story Woody and Toy Story Buz Lightyear and new bedding for their rooms.
It was a special Christmas because it was a white Christmas and we got to spend it with our family.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Christmas Services
We have been attending our church for over 10 years and I have to say my favorite service is always our Christmas service. I don't think we have missed one but I could be wrong. We usually schedule our Christmas travels to make sure we don't leave without attending the service.
Every service ends the same way and that is with everyone lighting a candle and singing Christmas carols. It is an amazing sight to see the sanctuary full of people and lit by only candles.
We just got home from the service this year and I am already excited about next year.
Every service ends the same way and that is with everyone lighting a candle and singing Christmas carols. It is an amazing sight to see the sanctuary full of people and lit by only candles.
We just got home from the service this year and I am already excited about next year.
Monday, December 21, 2009
Memories
I am off this week for Christmas so I started a project of turning all the DV8 tapes we have into DVDs. In order to do this you have to play the tape through the camera and burn it to DVD. This has led us to watching some of the very first tapes we made of the boys and has brought back a lot of memories. I will always be thankful for all the video and pictures we have taken because I would have forgotten a lot.
But, two things are apparent. First we sure were a lot younger looking back then and second, our house sure was a lot cleaner. As we moved from one boy to adding a second boy, more gray hairs appeared and more toys were scattered through out. It sure is nice to have a messy house.
But, two things are apparent. First we sure were a lot younger looking back then and second, our house sure was a lot cleaner. As we moved from one boy to adding a second boy, more gray hairs appeared and more toys were scattered through out. It sure is nice to have a messy house.
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Getting a Haircut
I take the boys to a traditional barber shop where 99.9% of their customers are males. When you go there everyone knows each other and it is a bunch of men sitting around talking sports and hunting. It is great fun.
Today I took Chase and as we are driving up I asked him who he wanted to cut his hair. Ms. Johnann is who normally does it and she is Todd's wife. She and Todd are the owners of the shop. Todd is a bit of a haircut artist and you can never go wrong with him cutting your hair plus he is great with kids. But, Shelley really likes the way Johnann cuts Chase's hair and Johnann really likes Chase.
So his response to my question was he wanting Mr. Todd to cut his hair.
Me - Ms. Johnann is available and Mommy really likes how she cuts your hair.
Chase - But will she be funny?
Today I took Chase and as we are driving up I asked him who he wanted to cut his hair. Ms. Johnann is who normally does it and she is Todd's wife. She and Todd are the owners of the shop. Todd is a bit of a haircut artist and you can never go wrong with him cutting your hair plus he is great with kids. But, Shelley really likes the way Johnann cuts Chase's hair and Johnann really likes Chase.
So his response to my question was he wanting Mr. Todd to cut his hair.
Me - Ms. Johnann is available and Mommy really likes how she cuts your hair.
Chase - But will she be funny?
Monday, December 07, 2009
Why Do I Watch Sports?
Why do I watch sports? It just drives me crazy. The Cowboys only frustrate me and after a great season, TCU only gets the Fiesta Bowl. I just need to give it up but I can't. It is my crack..
Tuesday, December 01, 2009
Dear God
Dear God,
Thank you for all your blessings. You have blessed me with an incredible wife, the two most special boys, good health, a roof over our head and food on our table.
With all these blessings why am I looking for more? I feel you have more planned for me and I am missing it. Lord, please make your plan for me clear and if I'm still not seeing it, please give me confirmation and leave me with no doubt.
If where I am is where you want me then praise to you for that. But, if I am missing it because of fear or an unwillingness please open my mind and heart to your desires.
In Jesus name
Amen
Thank you for all your blessings. You have blessed me with an incredible wife, the two most special boys, good health, a roof over our head and food on our table.
With all these blessings why am I looking for more? I feel you have more planned for me and I am missing it. Lord, please make your plan for me clear and if I'm still not seeing it, please give me confirmation and leave me with no doubt.
If where I am is where you want me then praise to you for that. But, if I am missing it because of fear or an unwillingness please open my mind and heart to your desires.
In Jesus name
Amen
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Sleeping Arrangements
I have probably posted about this in the past but the sleeping arrangements in our house are very fluid. Where someone goes to bed doesn't mean that is where they will wake up.
Shelley and I might go to bed together but I will wake up on the couch and she will wake up in one of the boys' rooms. Lately, Chase has been coming in and sleeping with me and Shelley has been moving to the couch. Chase says he likes to "sleep with Daddy."
I like sleeping with Chase as well because he is a cuddler and is the only one who let's me touch him when I sleep. These are memories that I hope I can burn into my brain.
Shelley and I might go to bed together but I will wake up on the couch and she will wake up in one of the boys' rooms. Lately, Chase has been coming in and sleeping with me and Shelley has been moving to the couch. Chase says he likes to "sleep with Daddy."
I like sleeping with Chase as well because he is a cuddler and is the only one who let's me touch him when I sleep. These are memories that I hope I can burn into my brain.
Thanksgiving 2009
This was one of the best Thanksgivings in a long time. First I took the entire week off and it has been very relaxing. We went up to Oklahoma and spent Thanksgiving with Shelley's family where the food is incredible and plentiful. Also, my mother came down and also made the trip to Oklahoma. I think she enjoyed her time there as well. And finally, the Cowboys won!
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
The Change Continues
One of the greatest and saddest things about raising children is watching them grow and change. It is very cool to watch but I often find myself wondering where my little boys went.
Seth has really changed in the last few weeks. First, he has developed a big interest in history, U.S. war history to be more precise. I've started recording anything I can find on the History channel that relates to the Revolutionary War, Civil War, WWI or WWII.
He has also just started practicing the piano on his own. Without notice he will go in and start playing where before we had to bribe, beg, plead and threaten to get him to practice. And reading has become a new obsession. He is now just getting books and going into his room and starts reading.
What could be next, picking up his toys? No way, that is just crazy talk.
Seth has really changed in the last few weeks. First, he has developed a big interest in history, U.S. war history to be more precise. I've started recording anything I can find on the History channel that relates to the Revolutionary War, Civil War, WWI or WWII.
He has also just started practicing the piano on his own. Without notice he will go in and start playing where before we had to bribe, beg, plead and threaten to get him to practice. And reading has become a new obsession. He is now just getting books and going into his room and starts reading.
What could be next, picking up his toys? No way, that is just crazy talk.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Father Son Retreat
Seth and I had our 2nd Father/Son Retreat this weekend at Allaso Ranch.
This is a weekend we both have been looking forward to and it lived up to our expectations. We had a great time just being together and walking. The only thing missing was the smallest Dowdle but he gets to join us next year.
We bonded and I really enjoyed the time together. I just enjoyed walking through the woods with him and he really enjoyed taking a canoe out onto the lake.
We are ready to go back and next year will be real interesting as Chase will get to experience it for the first time.
This is a weekend we both have been looking forward to and it lived up to our expectations. We had a great time just being together and walking. The only thing missing was the smallest Dowdle but he gets to join us next year.
We bonded and I really enjoyed the time together. I just enjoyed walking through the woods with him and he really enjoyed taking a canoe out onto the lake.
We are ready to go back and next year will be real interesting as Chase will get to experience it for the first time.
Blogging
I am going to make a new effort at blogging again. I'm going to try and keep it simple and avoid worrying if it is interesting.
Monday, July 20, 2009
When they get older
I have been a real slacker on blogging and I'm going to try and improve.
Here is part of a comment Chase made to me.
"daddy when I get older, and if you are still alive..."
I was so moved by this. :-)
Here is part of a comment Chase made to me.
"daddy when I get older, and if you are still alive..."
I was so moved by this. :-)
Sunday, July 05, 2009
I've Got To Go Pee Pee
"I've got to go pee pee." Those are words that seem to come out of no where from Chase's mouth and it often seems to be at the most inconvenient times.
One evening Seth and Chase and I went to the UPS depot to pick up a package that we missed the delivery. We had been in line for 30 minutes and were finally next when I heard "I've got to go pee pee." This statement is also expressed rarely loudly and in a very urgent manner. It is also followed by a quick grab to his lower regions with both hands and a very stressed expression on his face. History tells us that time is of the essence and not to dilly dally. At this particular incident at UPS I quickly looked around and saw no public restroom. I also assessed the line behind us and knew if I got out of line, we were going to have another 30 minute wait. So, I began a high stakes gamble with time. Fortunately, I won the gamble and was able to get out to the parking lot where Chase was able to hose down my tire.
Today, we went to a movie and had made it right to the end. We were coming to the exciting conclusion when the words "I've got to go pee pee" echoed through the theatre. Again, I assessed the situation and knew if we left we couldn't get back in time so another gamble with time was undertook and again I won. I know my luck is about to run out.
One evening Seth and Chase and I went to the UPS depot to pick up a package that we missed the delivery. We had been in line for 30 minutes and were finally next when I heard "I've got to go pee pee." This statement is also expressed rarely loudly and in a very urgent manner. It is also followed by a quick grab to his lower regions with both hands and a very stressed expression on his face. History tells us that time is of the essence and not to dilly dally. At this particular incident at UPS I quickly looked around and saw no public restroom. I also assessed the line behind us and knew if I got out of line, we were going to have another 30 minute wait. So, I began a high stakes gamble with time. Fortunately, I won the gamble and was able to get out to the parking lot where Chase was able to hose down my tire.
Today, we went to a movie and had made it right to the end. We were coming to the exciting conclusion when the words "I've got to go pee pee" echoed through the theatre. Again, I assessed the situation and knew if we left we couldn't get back in time so another gamble with time was undertook and again I won. I know my luck is about to run out.
Monday, June 15, 2009
Anniversary and Birthday
Facebook and Twitter are taking the majority of my social networking efforts but that is for another post.
This weekend was a busy weekend and will always be. The middle of June will always be occupied by Shelley and mine anniversary and Chase's birthday.
I surprised Shelley and took her away for a night at the Gaylord Texan and dinner. We had a great time and it was nice to get away.
Sunday was Chase's 4th birthday and we had a family party and an afternoon at Bedford Splash.
I can't believe that I have been married 10 years and have a 4 year old.
Chase was extremely excited about this birthday. For some reason, being 4 had a special place in his heart and he wanted to tell everyone about it. He enjoyed all of the attention. Last year his birthday party, while special because it was celebrated on the beach, I think he felt a little shorted because it was just us and Shelley's mom.
I think Shelley and Chase enjoyed their special weekend.
This weekend was a busy weekend and will always be. The middle of June will always be occupied by Shelley and mine anniversary and Chase's birthday.
I surprised Shelley and took her away for a night at the Gaylord Texan and dinner. We had a great time and it was nice to get away.
Sunday was Chase's 4th birthday and we had a family party and an afternoon at Bedford Splash.
I can't believe that I have been married 10 years and have a 4 year old.
Chase was extremely excited about this birthday. For some reason, being 4 had a special place in his heart and he wanted to tell everyone about it. He enjoyed all of the attention. Last year his birthday party, while special because it was celebrated on the beach, I think he felt a little shorted because it was just us and Shelley's mom.
I think Shelley and Chase enjoyed their special weekend.
Sunday, May 31, 2009
My Kindergartner (or soon to be former Kindergartner)
This past Friday was Seth's Kindergarten year end program.
It started off as each student went on stage and said what they liked about Kindergarten. I watched Seth through the video camera and was just taken by how grown up he looked. He approached the mike and said his favorite part was their play "How Does Your Garden Grow?"
They then all sang as a group, and since Shelley was able to get there early, we sat close enough that I could distinguish his voice from all the other kids. I sat there and listened and could hear the slight lisp that he has since he had just lost his second tooth that morning.
A slide show ran that captured all the pictures from the year. I looked through the crowd and at all the teachers and tears were running down everyone's face.
Our babies weren't babies anymore.
Seth,
I love you and you will always be my baby.
Dad
It started off as each student went on stage and said what they liked about Kindergarten. I watched Seth through the video camera and was just taken by how grown up he looked. He approached the mike and said his favorite part was their play "How Does Your Garden Grow?"
They then all sang as a group, and since Shelley was able to get there early, we sat close enough that I could distinguish his voice from all the other kids. I sat there and listened and could hear the slight lisp that he has since he had just lost his second tooth that morning.
A slide show ran that captured all the pictures from the year. I looked through the crowd and at all the teachers and tears were running down everyone's face.
Our babies weren't babies anymore.
Seth,
I love you and you will always be my baby.
Dad
Monday, May 25, 2009
No More Red Drink Store?
Ever since Seth was about 2, something we have done and was always seen as something special, was going to QuikTrip together. Anytime we did something together, it often included a stop at QuikTrip so that Seth could get their strawberry banana Freezoni. (This is like an Icee.) This tradition has expanded to include Chase but his drink of choice is often either white cherry or blue rasberry.
Seth dubbed his favorite drink as a "red drink" and Chase has since followed suit calling his a "blue drink." Well, this then meant that QT was the "red drink" store, and for the last 4 years it has always been referred to in our house as the "red drink" store.
Well, another sad step in growing up occurred yesterday when Seth announced that he was going to start calling it QuikTrip instead of the "red drink store." This made me sad because it was just another sign that I can't keep them from growing up.
Seth dubbed his favorite drink as a "red drink" and Chase has since followed suit calling his a "blue drink." Well, this then meant that QT was the "red drink" store, and for the last 4 years it has always been referred to in our house as the "red drink" store.
Well, another sad step in growing up occurred yesterday when Seth announced that he was going to start calling it QuikTrip instead of the "red drink store." This made me sad because it was just another sign that I can't keep them from growing up.
Sunday, May 03, 2009
A conversation I overheard
Today we started scraping the wallpaper off of our walls in our bathroom. I was on a ladder with my back to the boys and they started having this conversation.
Chase - I want to go on the ladder.
Seth - When you are a grown man you can do whatever you want.
Chase - Like what?
Seth - You can do things on the ladder and you never have to go to your room.
Chase - I want to go on the ladder.
Seth - When you are a grown man you can do whatever you want.
Chase - Like what?
Seth - You can do things on the ladder and you never have to go to your room.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Seth's Prayer
Last night Seth told us a prayer he says before he goes poo poo.
"God, please don't let it hurt."
"God, please don't let it hurt."
Saturday, April 04, 2009
Awkward Moment
Tonight Seth and I went to dinner together and when we were leaving the restaurant Seth looked over at a restaurant across the way and asked what it was called. I paused for a second as I looked at the sign, trying to figure out my response. Thinking of no good one, I just decided to answer the question.
"Hooters," I responded.
"That is a funny name for a restaurant," he replied.
Then on the drive home he kept repeating it, "Hooters, Hooters, Hooters...."
I just hope he gets it out of his system before school on Monday.
"Hooters," I responded.
"That is a funny name for a restaurant," he replied.
Then on the drive home he kept repeating it, "Hooters, Hooters, Hooters...."
I just hope he gets it out of his system before school on Monday.
Wednesday, April 01, 2009
Loose Tooth
Yesterday while I was in a meeting, Shelley called my cell phone. The unusual thing is she left a voice mail, which she rarely does. This usually means it is important and I need to call her back.
When I got out of the meeting and was able to hear the message, I heard an excited plea to call them back.
I called back and Shelley said Seth had some big news to tell me. He excitedly told me that he had a loose tooth, his first. We are all very excited but I am sad as well. It is official; my little boy is going to continue growing up.
When I got out of the meeting and was able to hear the message, I heard an excited plea to call them back.
I called back and Shelley said Seth had some big news to tell me. He excitedly told me that he had a loose tooth, his first. We are all very excited but I am sad as well. It is official; my little boy is going to continue growing up.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
It Was A God Thing
This weekend our church has a community outreach program call Love Your Neighbor going on. We are participating in a variety of community service type projects and just doing random acts of kindness.
Chase had his first soccer game this morning and I was going to have to take him by myself while Shelley and Seth went to an apartment complex to pass out Easter baskets and conduct an Easter egg hunt. The forecast was for it to be bitterly cold so Shelley suggested I take some hot chocolate to the game and pass it out. It fit perfectly into the theme of our weekend but WAY out of my comfort zone.
Chase and I were the first to arrive from our team at the game and it was bitterly cold. We got there just as the game in front of us was ending and the families were leaving. Just then a man walked up to me with 2 containers of hot chocolate left over from the first game and offered them to me for our team.
So, God was not going to let me sit in my comfort zone and there I was passing out hot chocolate. :-)
Chase had his first soccer game this morning and I was going to have to take him by myself while Shelley and Seth went to an apartment complex to pass out Easter baskets and conduct an Easter egg hunt. The forecast was for it to be bitterly cold so Shelley suggested I take some hot chocolate to the game and pass it out. It fit perfectly into the theme of our weekend but WAY out of my comfort zone.
Chase and I were the first to arrive from our team at the game and it was bitterly cold. We got there just as the game in front of us was ending and the families were leaving. Just then a man walked up to me with 2 containers of hot chocolate left over from the first game and offered them to me for our team.
So, God was not going to let me sit in my comfort zone and there I was passing out hot chocolate. :-)
Saturday, March 07, 2009
Littering
The other night we were in the parking lot at church and I was trying to get the boys unloaded from the car. Chase had fallen asleep so I was carrying him and was in the process of helping Seth down from the truck when the wind blew a piece of paper out of the car. I asked Seth to track it down when we had this exchange.
Seth: Why?
Me: We don't want to litter.
Seth captured the piece of paper.
Seth: What is littering?
Me: It is when we throw trash down on the ground.
Seth: Is it illegal?
Me: Yes.
Seth: What can happen?
Me: They can make us pay a fine but also God doesn't like it either.
Seth: But God saw the wind blow it out. He knows it was an accident.
I then had to explain that it was only littering if you left the trash on the ground...
Seth: Why?
Me: We don't want to litter.
Seth captured the piece of paper.
Seth: What is littering?
Me: It is when we throw trash down on the ground.
Seth: Is it illegal?
Me: Yes.
Seth: What can happen?
Me: They can make us pay a fine but also God doesn't like it either.
Seth: But God saw the wind blow it out. He knows it was an accident.
I then had to explain that it was only littering if you left the trash on the ground...
Sunday, March 01, 2009
Shelley, I love you because..
You took a chance on me.
You brought me to Christ.
You gave me the 2 most precious sons.
You make me laugh.
You are beautiful.
You have a wonderful heart
You put up with me.
You are spunky
You are willing to do anything for our family.
You have a great sense of humor.
You love Elvis
You go to birthday parties
You are my everything..
You brought me to Christ.
You gave me the 2 most precious sons.
You make me laugh.
You are beautiful.
You have a wonderful heart
You put up with me.
You are spunky
You are willing to do anything for our family.
You have a great sense of humor.
You love Elvis
You go to birthday parties
You are my everything..
Monday, February 16, 2009
12 Years Ago Today Was The Start of the Journey
The title of my blog is "The Journey of a Happily Married Man with Two Kids." Well, this journey started 12 years ago today. On February 16, 1997, I had my first date with Shelley.
This was a very dark time of my life and I had no idea what this date would turn into. I was going through a divorce with the one I thought was my "soul mate." I thought I had the perfect life until about 4 months previous when she said "I want a divorce." I still remember hearing those words and just dropping to my knees. I felt like my life was over at that point.
At this point in my life I wasn't a Christian and didn't have a relationship with Jesus. I felt that you just needed to be a good person and going to church was what people did to make themselves feel better.
But I remember clearly one evening having a "discussion" in our kitchen. I was trying to convince her that we needed to try and save our marriage and I suddenly had a question pop in my head, "What does God think about this?" We had gotten married in a church by a preacher and in front of God but up to this point that was just because that was how you were supposed to do it. Now I found myself wondering what God would think if we broke those promises we had made in front of him.
This was the first crack in my heart that was opened to let God in. Now I didn't drop to my knees and accept Jesus at that point. The truth is it took me several years but this was the beginning.
Shelley and I went on our first date a few months later and I was taken by her beauty, intelligence, sense of humor and "spunkiness." But I was just looking for someone to keep me company and help take away some of my lonliness, it wasn't supposed to last.
Shelley was a Christian but had drifted so we were two lost souls. We weren't right for each other but we were filling a need each of us had. I believe this gave God the time he needed to work in our lives.
Through a series of events, Shelley found our church and started attending. I started going but it was just so I could be with her. Shelley resumed her walk and then started working on me.
When we got married we were "unequally yoked." I agree with everyone that this is a recipe for a disaster and it was almost for us. We were on a path of potential divorce until two things happened. The first and most important was that I accepted Christ as my Savior. I will always be thankful to Shelley and her persistance along with Ed Young and Fellowship Church. The second thing that happened is we started going to a Christian counselor.
Today we have an awesome marriage, two wonderful boys and are growing in our walk with Jesus. And this journey all started 12 years ago today.
This was a very dark time of my life and I had no idea what this date would turn into. I was going through a divorce with the one I thought was my "soul mate." I thought I had the perfect life until about 4 months previous when she said "I want a divorce." I still remember hearing those words and just dropping to my knees. I felt like my life was over at that point.
At this point in my life I wasn't a Christian and didn't have a relationship with Jesus. I felt that you just needed to be a good person and going to church was what people did to make themselves feel better.
But I remember clearly one evening having a "discussion" in our kitchen. I was trying to convince her that we needed to try and save our marriage and I suddenly had a question pop in my head, "What does God think about this?" We had gotten married in a church by a preacher and in front of God but up to this point that was just because that was how you were supposed to do it. Now I found myself wondering what God would think if we broke those promises we had made in front of him.
This was the first crack in my heart that was opened to let God in. Now I didn't drop to my knees and accept Jesus at that point. The truth is it took me several years but this was the beginning.
Shelley and I went on our first date a few months later and I was taken by her beauty, intelligence, sense of humor and "spunkiness." But I was just looking for someone to keep me company and help take away some of my lonliness, it wasn't supposed to last.
Shelley was a Christian but had drifted so we were two lost souls. We weren't right for each other but we were filling a need each of us had. I believe this gave God the time he needed to work in our lives.
Through a series of events, Shelley found our church and started attending. I started going but it was just so I could be with her. Shelley resumed her walk and then started working on me.
When we got married we were "unequally yoked." I agree with everyone that this is a recipe for a disaster and it was almost for us. We were on a path of potential divorce until two things happened. The first and most important was that I accepted Christ as my Savior. I will always be thankful to Shelley and her persistance along with Ed Young and Fellowship Church. The second thing that happened is we started going to a Christian counselor.
Today we have an awesome marriage, two wonderful boys and are growing in our walk with Jesus. And this journey all started 12 years ago today.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
My Incredible Wife
On this Valentines Day I am so thankful for my incredible wife. I don't have the words to describe her but it can't be said any better than in Proverbs 31: 10 -31.
10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
Sunday, February 08, 2009
Valentines
This morning Seth made me a Valentine card. A little later he came up to me and asked where it was.
I told him it was on my dresser so I could take it to work with me.
Seth - Are you taking it to work with you tomorrow?
Me - Not tomorrow, I have to go to San Diego today and won't be in the office until Tuesday.
A little later he brought me another valentine and said:
Seth - Here is a Valentine you can take to San Diego so you won't forget me.
That made me melt and I just gave him a big hug and told him I will never forget him.
I told him it was on my dresser so I could take it to work with me.
Seth - Are you taking it to work with you tomorrow?
Me - Not tomorrow, I have to go to San Diego today and won't be in the office until Tuesday.
A little later he brought me another valentine and said:
Seth - Here is a Valentine you can take to San Diego so you won't forget me.
That made me melt and I just gave him a big hug and told him I will never forget him.
Monday, February 02, 2009
My Hugger
Last night I gave Chase a kiss on his forehead and he immediately wiped it off as he always does when someone kisses him.
Chase - I don't like kisses
Me - Well, what do you like?
Chase - I like hugs!
This is true. He has always liked hugs and he is a very good hugger.
Chase - I don't like kisses
Me - Well, what do you like?
Chase - I like hugs!
This is true. He has always liked hugs and he is a very good hugger.
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